Once a drunk....

.......always a drunk. ugh.....

how could i be so stupid.........................?

I am fed up with this situation. And now I am turning to you for advice.

So here's the deal.

Two months ago, my girlfriends 26 year old sister showed up at our door, with all of her belongings, looking to move in. She had been thrown out of her parents house ( now being the second time ) for drugs and disrespectful behavior. Because she had also already been thrown out of her sisters house ( twice ) and had also lived with other family members unsuccesfully, my girlfriend was her only hope because the rest of the family was sick of her, and she had nowhere else to go. Not without dread, my girlfriend felt that she had no choice other than to take her in.....rent free. After all, it is her sister.

It is now 2 months later.Upon arrival, she had a job. Im not sure if she quit or got fired, but she no longer has that job. She has never contributed to the rent or any of the utilities. She does not work, does not cook, does not clean and is not even friendly. She doesnt even have enough common courtesy to say hello when she sees me, in fact she just ignores me. She eats the groceries that I buy, eats the meals that I cook etc. Upon her arrival, my girlfriend gave her her car and got another one. At the time she had a job, so she was supposed to be making the payments but of course she didnt. So my girlfriend has been killing herself working overtime to make two car payments. On top of that, shes disrespectful. She had her own laptop which stopped working, so my girlfriend gave her hers which also mysteriously stopped working. We have a desktop in our bedroom, and lately ive come home to find her on the computer in our bedroom which does NOT sit well with me. The tv in her room broke, so she took it upon herself to go into our living room, and take the tv AND the tv stand out of our living room and put them into to her room without asking a single person if that was okay. WTF?!?!  Does she contribute to the cable bill that keeps the programs on that tv? NO. Does she contribute to the cable internet bill? NO. The rent? NO. SHE CONTRIBUTES NOTHING.

My girlfriend goes easy on her because she feels sorry for her and its her sister. But I am fed up. My hours at work have been cut severely, so when its time to pay bills, i literally have been coughing up every dime I have to ensure that my share is paid and dealt with being broke. But ill be damned if I am okay with being poor while this chick lives for free?!?! Are you out of your damn mind?Im over it.

The first last straw was coming home and finding her in my bedroom. The second one was when I noticed that she took the photos that I had put in MY bathroom of my girlfriend and I  and  stuck them in some drawer. She has no respect for my household and Im over it. She even has the audacity to be  being selective about where she is willing to work? I told my girlfriens some places that I knew were hiring, some even for on the spot seasonal positions and she refused because she "wanted to stick to serving" and "wasn't interested". Ummm if you are unemployed and receiving NO income whatsoever how are you going to be picky? If anybody is willing to hire you? You damn sure need to take it. I am sick and tired of being broke while this chick lives freely off of MY MONEY.

I have considered moving out, but it would be very costly right now and I can't really afford it, but even so, I shouldnt HAVE to move out. I LIKE the home I have with my girlfriend. I don't WANT to leave and be kicked out of my own home. Its not her fault that her sister sucks and its not her responsibility to take care of her either. And its certainly not MINE. But what am I supposed to do? Shes not going to throw her sister out on the street.But her sister sucks and I can't stand her. I mean maybe I would feel different if she was at least a cool ass person but she isnt. I don't like her...PERIOD. He situation aside, I just don't like her. 

Talking to my girlfriend about this does nothing. She says shes getting on her aboutt he job situation, but no progress has been made. And regardless, I still don't like her. I want her gone. This was supposed to be temporary, but I see it being permanant. Our house is also small, so I feel trapped. Like I have no space. I HATE her being in our room.  I don't thin kI can deal with this any longer.

What would you do in this situation? I am at wits end.

So. I have decided to severe ties with Chyna.

My friendship with her is unhealthy. It is interfering with my current relationship. I have figured out that the reason I have been feeling all of these negative things about the relationship that I am in are because of her. Yes, shes absolutely beautiful, shes tiny, she sensitive, she has pretty feet, shes caring, shes a great lover....

But shes also a broke, unemployed felon, with no job, no stable place to live, no sense of direction in her life, and no stability. Just as she was 3 years ago when I met her, and rescued her.

I cannot do this a second time. I won't. No matter how much I love her.

Its time to friggin let go.

UGH UGH UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Zahara Jolie-Pitt and the Politics of Uncombed Hair


I would like to meet the author of this article so I can personally smack the shit out of her.

So she has guys over to the house. There is one in her room right now.

I mean, she is an adult. She has a right to have a social life and boyfriends. But does she have to bring them here? Company should be a privilege extended only to those who support the household. Seeing as how all she does is take up space in and make it smell like marijuana, she shouldn't have any.

And besides, I am REALLY funny about people in my house. If I don't know you, I don't want you here. Hell even if I DO know you I don't want you here most of the time. Not one of my friends has ever ventured into my home. I have never invited them. And I don't fancy people in my home unless it is squeaky clean, which never happens here. Leone is a slob which I am aware of, but she is also HoH, and pays bills here. She works her ass off sometime 70 hours in a week and frankly, she is doing this chick a FAVOR by even letting her stay here. I grit my teeth, but mind cleaning up after her a lot less because she takes care of me and this house. Seeing as how this chick does not contribute to the cleaning of this house either, I do however mind cleaning up after her. To say I want her gone is such a grotesque understatement. Her and her male company can get the fuck out of this house. If she wants to get some ass she needs to get it over their house. Im a lesbian, I don't like men, I don't want them in my house, and I certainly don't want them fucking in my house.

UGH.

I could go on and on and on about this. Im going to silence the bitch in me right now and give it a rest.

So I guess she finally woke up and smelled the fucking coffee.

A disclaimer to this chick moving into our home was very simple: We do not tolerate drugs of any kind in the house. This includes weed. You will not smoke weed in this house. Period.

The first time she did it, I grit my teeth and made Leone ( my girl ) aware. She said she made a mental note and is just going to pray it doesn't happen when shes home.

Lmao. Well yesterday this chick had some guy in her room just having one ol smoke out!!! The entire house smelled like weed. I was disgusted and enraged. I calmed my nerves, and went into the living room where I found Leone fuming because she was already aware of what was going on.

Mind you, this is the reason she was thrown out of her parents house. For disrespecting their fucking house by smoking weed.

So you are going to come in my house, lay up on my shit, eat my food, shit in my toilet, use my water for FREE because you DON'T pay any fucking bills.....but then have the audacity to disrespect my fucking home on top of it?!?!

I laughed when Leone informed me that she informed her that on the first 200 dollars (her portion of the rent) will be required if she expects to stay here. I am so proud of her for standing up and letting her oh so poor unfortunate sister know that shit is NOT gonna fly. better her than me because I am a straight bitch, and I will hurt her feelings.

If I ever catch her with weed in this house again I am going to say something MYSELF. So lets just pray that that does NOT happen.